Are you aware of the notion that the harder you try to be so good at anything that you hope of becoming? You momentarily lose yourself in the process and come across with the unspeakable feeling that you are loosening the clasp of your self-worth only to realize that you are far becoming of the mindless dream that you ought to have. It’s not a bad thing if you want to put things in that way, just don’t overdo it. Possibly, you are doing that either of these two things: you are trying to live up to the high expectations of the people around you or you simply want to seek for perfection no matter how hard it is to find.
Seeping through the corners of the earth, and I was like paraphrasing it because the earth has no corners but then again this is my blog and I can say whatever I want. Without doubt, you’ll eventually find yourself sulking in one corner of your room, over thinking of all your flaws, misfortunes and insecurities that makes you feel so neglected and forlorn. Giving you the freaking nostalgia that is certainly making you feel weak and ashamed once again of that many instances that you have give in to those sordid odds over the utterly weighed alternatives in your life. This is dramatically important for you even if you won’t admit it to yourself. Well, it’s normal that people bumped into half-baked decisions and all because that’s what makes us all human, conforming to the mess up days that we have no intention of drowning into its whirlpool.
You are not perfect, remember that. And if you commit one painful mistake again remember the first sentence of this paragraph. Don’t be too hard on yourself or to the people around you. You know what’s the secret to happy and fulfilling life? Never compare yourself from that of another person’s life, you have your own persona and gift that only you possess. You have something that they don’t have and just waiting for you to uncover that certain enigma within yourself. Take things easy and discover the immense and boundless treasures that are just waiting for you to be noticed. No matter how trite this is I’m still going to say this, life is ten percent how you make it and ninety percent how you take it. Know what you have and learn to love it. Every one of us is fighting a hard battle without every one of us knowing it, so even if we are having a hard time for ourselves please find in your heart to smile because we never know who gets inspired by it.
Nevertheless, if you can’t find any reason to laugh or even smile, and I supposed that would be dreadfully awful for you as it is for me back when I was letting myself brood in that plinth. Hoho Being happy and fulfilled is not a process, it’s just a matter of choice whether to go and pity yourself or just be happy.
Voila! Just follow these steps and be glad that you did:
- Get excited
- Think of happy thoughts
- Look forward
- Get inspired
- Keep your head high
- Keep your chin up
- And most importantly, smile!